Whenever in my life I cried, everyone said something nasty like
1. You think you are the only one who has all the worries in
this world?
2. You behave like a foolish child.
3. Some people don't even pay you attention! They just
continue their own chores.
4. Some people listen to your problems but they don't do
anything.
5. Some people say that there is nothing in just sitting and
crying but they don't tell us how to avoid it.
I can feel all the statements mentioned above.
No one understands how the crying person feels at that
moment. These nasty people need to imagine themselves in the situation and I
bet they will be shocked seeing the nasty part they play in the life of the sad
and crying person.
Everyone should remember that no one cries without any
reason. There is always a reason behind everything which happens in this entire
universe and no one can deny it.
According to me, there are several reasons behind every cry in
this world. I can list of course not all but most of them.
Possible Reasons Behind Every Cry:
1. The person is just going uncontrollably emotional for some
big success or loss.
2. The person recently suffered the shock of someone's death.
3. The person feels like he/she is going to lose someone not
physically but emotionally.
4. Have faced some harsh realities of life recently.
5. People around he/she are not being nice.
It's true that there are times when you can feel as high as a
king of the world or as low as a beggar on the street or even worse than that.
So in all the times of your life, remember that it will never last long.
Everything in this world has an end, so do your worries and PLUS so do your
happiness. Enjoy every moment of life to its fullest as you will definitely
cherish the time you spent laughing and being happy and care-free :)
Needless to say, everyone needs to admit the fact that no one
can fix the time of anyone's birth or death plus life has always been like this
so you have to get along with all the things coming your way. Whether you do it
happily or unhappily, it's totally up to you.
Now check the environment you are living in; if you feel like
people are not being nice to you, deal with them ! Strongly deal with them !
But How To Deal With Negative People In Your Life ?
It has always been a very tricky question which can be
resolved in the following three ways:
1. Ignore them totally.
2. Talk to them making an eye to eye contact.
3. Discuss their problem with others but don't tell the nasty
person directly how they are making you feel.
Here the solution no. 1 is easy but not a permanent one as
for how long you can avoid someone ? So it's not a practical solution to all
your worries as it will not lead you to the end of your unhappiness.
If you go with the solution no. 2, it may not seem an easy
one at a glance but it will definitely help you in the long run because in this
solution you are actually talking about the real problem and directly with the
exact person. This will not only take you to the resolution of the problem plus
it also has an un denying advantage like if you show such confidence, the next
time, nasty person will think twice before speaking to you ;)
The third solution, according to me is the worst one ! You
discuss your problems with all the human beings on this earth but only the
person who is causing all the trouble is not hearing them !? It's totally
mindless not to discuss it with the actual relevant person.
So all in all, everyone should always try to be as much happy
and positive as they can because people are not going to change how they behave
as they are grown-up in that way and now you can't do anything about them.
But what you can do for others to make them feel better is:
Stop by and ask "Are You OK ?" :)
On an ending note, this saying should always be remembered:
"Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my
character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness,
immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain
and treasure the most precious gift I have—life itself." ~ Walter Anderson
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