Everyone loves a happy face - Why !!??

Whenever in my life I cried, everyone said something nasty like

1. You think you are the only one who has all the worries in this world?

2. You behave like a foolish child.

3. Some people don't even pay you attention! They just continue their own chores.

4. Some people listen to your problems but they don't do anything.

5. Some people say that there is nothing in just sitting and crying but they don't tell us how to avoid it.

I can feel all the statements mentioned above.

No one understands how the crying person feels at that moment. These nasty people need to imagine themselves in the situation and I bet they will be shocked seeing the nasty part they play in the life of the sad and crying person.

Everyone should remember that no one cries without any reason. There is always a reason behind everything which happens in this entire universe and no one can deny it.

According to me, there are several reasons behind every cry in this world. I can list of course not all but most of them.

Possible Reasons Behind Every Cry:

1. The person is just going uncontrollably emotional for some big success or loss.

2. The person recently suffered the shock of someone's death.

3. The person feels like he/she is going to lose someone not physically but emotionally.

4. Have faced some harsh realities of life recently.

5. People around he/she are not being nice.

It's true that there are times when you can feel as high as a king of the world or as low as a beggar on the street or even worse than that. So in all the times of your life, remember that it will never last long. Everything in this world has an end, so do your worries and PLUS so do your happiness. Enjoy every moment of life to its fullest as you will definitely cherish the time you spent laughing and being happy and care-free :)

Needless to say, everyone needs to admit the fact that no one can fix the time of anyone's birth or death plus life has always been like this so you have to get along with all the things coming your way. Whether you do it happily or unhappily, it's totally up to you.

Now check the environment you are living in; if you feel like people are not being nice to you, deal with them ! Strongly deal with them !

But How To Deal With Negative People In Your Life ?

It has always been a very tricky question which can be resolved in the following three ways:

1. Ignore them totally.

2. Talk to them making an eye to eye contact.

3. Discuss their problem with others but don't tell the nasty person directly how they are making you feel.

Here the solution no. 1 is easy but not a permanent one as for how long you can avoid someone ? So it's not a practical solution to all your worries as it will not lead you to the end of your unhappiness.

If you go with the solution no. 2, it may not seem an easy one at a glance but it will definitely help you in the long run because in this solution you are actually talking about the real problem and directly with the exact person. This will not only take you to the resolution of the problem plus it also has an un denying advantage like if you show such confidence, the next time, nasty person will think twice before speaking to you ;)

The third solution, according to me is the worst one ! You discuss your problems with all the human beings on this earth but only the person who is causing all the trouble is not hearing them !? It's totally mindless not to discuss it with the actual relevant person.

So all in all, everyone should always try to be as much happy and positive as they can because people are not going to change how they behave as they are grown-up in that way and now you can't do anything about them.

But what you can do for others to make them feel better is:

Stop by and ask "Are You OK ?" :)

On an ending note, this saying should always be remembered:

"Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have—life itself." ~ Walter Anderson

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The 8 DON'Ts of a Job Interview

Hello My Lovely Readers,

Today I want to share some very useful tips which will definitely help you in your job hunt.

I happened to have an interview at a very flourishing company which is very good at developing the most in a very short time; the day before yesterday. And believe me after all the preparations I did, all was in vein the moment I sat in front of the interviewer.

When I came back home, I was feeling sad for my stupid behavior during the interview because I had already passed the test and now the interview was the last assessment for my job.

Then I started thinking deeply on the matter of interview and finally after almost a day, I have found some helpful DON'Ts which can easily and successfully slip you through the tough interview round.

I would like to share them with you for your future reference.

1. Arriving late for the interview.

There is no excuse for the interview tardiness. You should strictly plan in advance for the traffic jams and other logistical obstacles and should leave for the interview way ahead of your actual appointment time and reach the office at least 15-20 minutes early. Then use the bonus time to review your preparation materials.

2. Dressing unprofessionally.

You should dress according to the culture of country in which you are. Also keep in mind that body piercings and tattoos can be distracting to some interviewers, so you should limit them as much as possible.

Plus take good care of your personal hygiene. No one likes a ill-looking employee in their team.

3. Behaving disrespectfully.

Whether it be a person at the door or at the reception, the human resources professional or any other employee passing you in the hallway, you should always mind your manners through each interaction because everyone with whom you come in contact is definitely a potential influencer to the decision-maker.

It is to note that this point doesn't apply to the interview day only, but it does apply to any other day; you should always meet and greet people happily with a smile on your face.

4. The most common mistake you can make during an interview.

Not organizing yourself beforehand.

No matter how hard you try or how many hours you allocate for a good thorough internet search, you are still vulnerable to make big mistakes like I did after many hours of deep thorough study of the company profile.

Here is a picture of the notes I took during my interview preparation :)

What you have to prepare is how you will answer the questions i.e. organize information in a way that you can speak clearly and concisely plus learn to handle the situation when things go awry. Your interviewer will definitely be impressed that you went the extra mile.

5. Talking Too Much.

There is nothing much worse than talking on and on and on ... The interviewer really doesn't need to know your WHOLE life story. You should keep your answers succinct, to-the-point and focused and please don't ramble, just answer the question directly.

Plus instead of asserting your personal style, focus on what's important in the situation i.e. a dialogue that can convinces a hiring person that you will contribute selflessly to the company.

6. Not being a good listener to your interviewer.

Remember, everyone loves a person who is a good listener.

If you don’t really listen to the questions your interviewer is asking, you won’t be able to respond to them properly. You should make sure that you put on your ‘listening’ cap as well as your ‘speaking’ cap. If you don’t listen up to your interviewer, you are pretty much sunk !

7. Do you have any queries ?

Don't come up empty when this question is asked. And don't give a "deer in the headlights" look, shrug your shoulders and ask anything from your thoughts at that moment. Because if you don't ask any questions, it may appear as if you're not interested in this job which in actual is not true.

8. Forget to say thank you.

At the end say a big "thank you" in a warm manner which can demonstrate appreciation for the interviewer's time because it was their greatness that they actually called you for an interview and remember manners matter a lot, always.

Happy Job Hunting ! :)